Women is a Multi talent, women is strong, women is independence.
I ever asked to myself, why women is always becomes a breadwinner, and why women is the one who have to sacrifice many things in life?
Being a women is not easy, they have to become a good daughter, a dedicated mother, as well as a strong spouse for their husband, oftenly it makes women forget to take care for themselves. They sacrifice their life for other happiness.
For example, I oftenly met a lot of women leaders in company who still single in their 40's even 50's (wish ain't :)) as they're too much focused on their career, so they are missing lot of things in their love life, you know what actually sometimes that's not what they wanted, maybe some people choose to be single for their lifetime, however sometimes that is not their choice to have a life like that, even sometimes they never expect to be in that point of life, if you look closer, they also want to have someone who loves them, someone who can relay on, someone who cares, someone who can listen, someone who always stay besides her in ups and down, I can see that sometimes they also feel lonely in life even though they have so much "things" in life, after I understand deeper some of them is spending too much time in career because they have to become a breadwinner for their family, they have to take care of their family...
I sometimes confused ya, when women have to fight for their life, and they becomes success, then the society will said, "women no need to succeed, man will afraid with you, in the end you'll end up in the kitchen and take care of the baby", else "women need to marry young cause if you're too old, no man will likes you!", those kind of stigma still strong in Indonesia, unfortunately!
Talking about women sacrifice, when women have a family, most of man just want their women to stay at home, stop career, and become fully housewife, take care of home, children, food, husband and anything non stop 24x7 a week plus if they still have legacy family to take care on, women burden will be more and more..
if women have career then they have to do everything parallelly as a mother, a wife as well as a career women, in addition with that if they have their legacy family to take care as their parents not working, so their burden will be more and more....can't imagine if unfortunately they have lazy and irresponsible husband, then women roles will be more and more, being a breadwinner for their life, their family life, a mother, wife, daughter....they sacrifice many things to make everyone happy and feel loved... that's why finding the right partner who has full responsibility and have a good understanding is very important!
Everywhere I go around Indonesia and around the world, I always see women workers from Indonesia. They have to leave their family, and their children to fight for "a spoon of rice" abroad as well as in Indonesia.
I'm sad if seeing a lot of lower workers from Indonesia abroad even in my own country Indonesia!, they become a devisa heroes abroad cause there is no job opportunity in Indonesia, in other side government continously open red carpet for chinese workers, with the statement our local worker is not capable or not have expertise, then Sir please train them, give them skills, in fact the workers that coming from china also not an expert, they just ordinary workers, which we can find a lot in Indonesia too! in fact Indonesia talent is a way more creative than that.
Indonesia is very rich, diverse and beautiful country however known as low level workers exporter! while other people (non Indonesia citizen) can easily get a job, earn money in Indonesia in many ways, kind of sad truth!!
RICH COUNTRY DILEMMA
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