I always feel anger and frustrate when seeing something out of my conscience, and i cant Change it or Even can't do anything about it!
It happened to my professional and personal things. In my professional works I also feels frustrated if seeing something out of integrity or else seeing unfairness happening, I always fight for the right things till I felt tired and choose to let go.
Unfairness sample if I see with my own eyes the difference work between people who always do the hard work sincerely authentically care for the customers is losing with the person who only do the checklist of their works as done but not really taking care of the customers. But they do the bullshit to just make the boss happy so they can get promotion. It’s unfair!
In the end of the day, it’s not a customer problem if they are churning bcos ur team not really do the job rightly to take care of the customers. Thus in the end of the day the company lost to loose the customers. FYI it takes more cost to acquire new customers than to retain the existing one.
I had morning walk around my place, lots of prestigius residence here. Somehow it makes me thinks is it really Indonesia? As the condition is totally different with what I saw outside Jakarta. The economic gap is real.
The other facts is lots of non Indonesia are around (India, Chinese, Arabia) the residence but the local Indonesian only becomes security, clean worker, right similar with the facts I found in Africa!
The other funny facts are I saw the security comes from military, yea only In Indonesia Millitary becomes security guard for someone who has money. military should be for country not for someone who has lots of money!
No wonder lots of Indonesian choose to be careless/aphatetic instead of care, bcos seeing those funny facts in this country also makes me angry. Moreover if u can’t doing anything it makes me more more angry!
Sometimes I just want to be aphatetic like them but I can’t! Sigh! That was my big problem!!
no wonder lots of Indonesian choose to live abroad, last time I was thinking they are not nationalist but now I know I think that might be the right choice than seeing the facts that u cannot changes. It’s more frustrating!
Social judgement and construction.
Living in Indonesia means you have to be ready with anything, Social judgement and social construction. Here, people will respect and value people based on who they know, what they have, what you do and how much you can give benefits?! Instead of WHO YOU ARE, HOW YOU DO, HOW MUCH YOU CARE FOR OTHERS.,
People also define their own social label/construction, so people will live based on others expectations, think and define about themselves, so that people will like and love them. Because being different means wrong, threat, and competitor. That’s why people loves to not becomes their authentic self because they are hungry for acceptance and acknowledgement from others. People will live based on others definition and timeline of success. In facts each person has their own definition of success.
But in Indonesia you will have value if you have moneys, title and good looking. Which I hate the most!
Cuz they don’t value sincerity, faithfully, empathy and authenticity.
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