LOST IN PARADISE

THE STORY  ABOUT FREEDOM, HAPPINESS, FULFILLMENT

In the end of the day is that the ”story“ is that really matters. Every story has values, because it COST lot of things in your life, pain-suffering-depression-dissapointment-setbacks etc.

 

In my journey, I met lots of new people with various background, age and experiences in life. Everything happened for a reason, I know God has brought me to meet them, and vice versa because of reasons, so I can “learn” from them and they can “teach” me something. 

 

Everyone has their own story from the experience they’ve been through. 

 

I met the old man in the beach, he loves adventures in lots of country since he is young, he had worked in very prestigious company in Europe before, but now he is living in a very very simple way, even you never expect that he ever work in prestigious company before. 

Don't judge a book from it's cover is very true!   Different like what most Indonesian did, who likes to show off the materials/visible things, richness, beauty, title/job etc lols, he dress very very simple!! even though he just wearing the T-Shirt but I think he is the richest man of the world because he rich with experiences, wisdom and perspective towards life and empathy towards others. 

Just like rice paddy, the more contained the more down is very very true and applicable for all aspects of life. In my view, every times I met people, I can differentiate between people who had lots of "contain" or not, usually the more contained people is with their life, the more humble wise and grounded they are, and usually the people who lack of contain, they tend to be arrogant and like to show off😂, in fact they show nothing! show off their own stupideness!😂

OK Let's go back to the European man. He shared his thought about life as below.

 

1.     In the end of the day it is the freedom, happiness and fulfillment that matters. When you so old, and almost reach the end point of your life (when your timing in the world ends), you won't seek anything except good health, serenity, freedom, happiness and fulfillment.

2.     Love and help yourself first then you can love and help others

3.     Always help people, cuz you never know his battle. You help others because you already get helped by others before, and you should pay it forward, Trust God, God sees everything, and God will help you when you are in need, through the hand of others. Do good and good will always come back to you, Karma

6.     Believe in magic and miracle in life, because each of us have invisible guardian angel that always guide and protect us

7.     Every people has their own way of living, respect that.

8.     Grounding, bare foot in the nature can absorb bad things/negative energy in life

9.     We are not what we think, our mind is not our friend, what’s inside is what matters most (intuition, gut feeling) is what matters most.

10.  Be grateful always everyday, say thank you for what you’ve got everyday

11.  Energy shines light, universe listen and bring it to the upper level 

12.  Before we come to this earth, each of us already know our family, mission, destiny, but once we born we forgot everything, and we come naturally to earth. That’s why here we are in the journey to find our purpose and meaning of life. 

13.  Never felt regrets and guilty for what already happened, because that what’s should be, instead said I could do either. Because each one of us always have a chance to do better. 

14.  God has LOVE, while human has WHY and HOW. LOVE has forgiveness, compassion and give a chance to be better. While HOW contains only the ego. 

Integrity

I’m amazed on how public bus driver works, they still do their work rightly (open the door in each station), commitedly and sincerily even though no one’s there waiting for the bus. 

 

Trust 

Backpacking taught me to trust the strangers. TRUST GOD and BELIEVE THAT LOVE IS EXIST, YES LOVE/Cinta Kasih. 

Fearless

Deal with of uncertain future, the sea, the dog and the monkey :D. Now I'm addicted of all of them ^^

Sincerity

Here I saw the most sincere smile which I never seen in Jakarta/Singapore or Surabaya. People here are very kind, loving and sincere.

Not all those who wanders are lost. You are not lost, You are here :)